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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to understand, you took up all laundry cause you are sick of seeing it. Then on a brief stay between trips your husband washed his things but failed to top off the loads to include yours. Solution is instead of saying “hey why did you not tip off the loads” and “I’m no longer washing your things” you are going radio silent on the matter. You are just settling up for a big fight[/quote]

I didn't see where OP was sick of 'seeing' it, just that it was not done (maybe I missed that post).  But, just like OP silently took on this task of his, she can just as silently stop doing it.  No conversation is required, no announcement, no drama.  She's just not doing it.

If it were me, I'd remain silent and be a little inwardly gleeful as I saw his mound of dirty clothes get bigger and bigger - [b]a physical representation of my reclaiming my power over my time and energy. [/b]Because, we all know this really isn't about laundry.  It's about being taken for granted, lack of appreciation and continued unmet expectations.  OP is simply letting go of something that holds resentment for her.  Team OP![/quote]

This is beautiful. Bravo![/quote]

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