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[quote=Anonymous]^^No one is suggesting (that I've read - maybe I missed something) that OP scoop in and save her child from being sad. There is nothing wrong with offering suggestions on how to make the transition to living away from home if your child is struggling.

I found a list of things to do to help kids during this transition (from Psychology Today) and what do you know -

[b]Let them know that you’re unconditionally there for them.[/b] This can't be stressed enough. Kids often feel isolated in their thoughts and feelings to avoid disappointing you, and/or being judged or criticized.

[b]Link them with resources. Be proactive at connecting to viable resources at school.[/b] Make a list of contacts bs if there is a need and desire.

[b]Make a plan with them regarding their socializing. [/b] Because of the importance of being immediately proactive and engaged to secure a friend group and friendships in general, for some kids who are inhibited or socially anxious, it’s helpful to empathize and strategize. For example, you can suggest Greek life, intramural sports, clubs, university events, hanging out in common areas in the dorms and on campus, etc.

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