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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just look at the criticism on dcum for anyone asking for opinions on a name. Keep it to yourself until the baby is born and you've processed the birth certificate forms at the hospital.[/quote]

[b]When you share that you are naming your child XYZ unless you say “we want opinions and aren’t sure” no one will give opinions.[/b] My family has zero boundaries and they’ve never given opinions on names.

Also, why share gender but not name? No one cares about your child’s name as much as you and it’s a surprise no matter what. You’re just delaying the surprise because you think people care and no one cares. [/quote]

They absolutely will.[/quote]

We didnt share gender because we waited until the birth.  Also if you dont care why are you asking?[/quote]

To make conversation. It’s not that deep. If I work with you and I ask you how your vacation was it’s because I’m being polite. I haven’t been sitting around wondering if you’re having a good time on vacation all week. See how that works? You just confirmed that people who don’t share baby names really believe everyone cares about their kid’s name. Newsflash: no one cares! And if someone says that your chosen name is dumb then you know how they feel. You don’t have to do anything with that information.

And when someone says they aren’t sharing I assume outside of it being a religious thing (bad luck) that they are so self absorbed that they think someone will take their great name (98% of names have been names before so this is stupid) or that they think that I will be waiting with baited breath for their choice once the baby is born. [/quote]

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