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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP said "I've also stated the problem fairly clearly to him and he does the half asked "well i asked you about your day yesterday and cleaned up the kitchen once" like that changes years of the dynamic."

Here is the problem: She has not been clear.

Here is what she should say to her husband: "I am still horny and want to have sex all of the time, but not with you. But that can change that. I don't F*** you because you don't pull your weight around here and it is unattractive. Nothing dries out my p*ssy more than a lazy man, which is what your are. If you really put in an effort, I will F*** you five times a week. If you don't, I will eventually look elsewhere. You decide."[/quote]

Men can't possibly be so dumb you have to be this blunt?[/quote]

Do you live in a harem or on a deserted island or under a rock?  I'm willing to concede that men may not be dumb but they are prone to interpreting words in a way they're more comfortable with or because they think you don't really mean what you said or that they have a better idea/way.

A few years ago, my DH asked me if I liked book lights.  I, clearly, said "NO".  I went on to explain that most of my reading is done on a Kindle, I didn't like them, I didn't want one and wouldn't use it.  Yet, what did he get me for Christmas? I asked him if heard me say I didn't like/want/wouldn't use it.  He said, yes, but the reviews were really good and he thought I'd change my mind.  You ought to head over to TikTok it's filled with real life examples of this kind of shlt.[/quote]

80% of my colleagues are men, and they understand perfectly well in a work context that I mean what I say. Why do they turn their brains off once they get home then?[/quote]

Because they want to take the easy way out and not put in the effort. PP said she didn’t want/need a reading light because it’s not necessary with a Kindle. Her husband brought her one anyway because it was easier than finding something else. 🤷‍♀️[/quote]

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