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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is an unhealthy obsession with wanting to attribute all successes to being born in the right place rather than one's own hard work and accomplishments. It's become fashionable to talk like this in the last few years. In reality, real life is very different. I could tell you ALL the stories of the kids born on third base and who are effectively flunking out of life. Downward mobility is real. And I could tell you ALL the stories of people from nowhere who ended managing directors, head of companies, law partners, doctors, business owners. Some people are genuinely born with the drive and discipline to work hard. For some people, this just comes more easily. If there is a pattern to success, it's hard work and discipline. Then if you combine it with getting your education out of the way earlier, getting married (and doubling your HHI) in your mid-late 20s, and picking the right career paths, the odds of coming out top increases substantially. But not everyone has the work ethic. [/quote] I read a LOT of successful peoples bios and linkedin esp in tech and finance, and have never found anyone with a LMC upbringing remotely like mine. [/quote]
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