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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, that's a huge problem, that his response was simply that he had plans (and it didn't mention those plans were with his freaking wife and kids).

But you [b]looking at his phone is a huge problem too[/b].

But you know all of this, right?[/quote]

[b]It's really not. they are married, it's ok to look at spouse's phone.[/b]

Keep your wide eyes open and you should ask him why he didn't mention you to the woman who asked him out.[/quote]

Absolutely not. That's a violation of trust. No one should be snooping into anyone's phone behind their back. My DH would never do this, nor would I. [/quote]

It’s not snooping if you are married.[/quote]

Psyyyychoooopath… you are a walking red flag.[/quote]

What do you people do on your phones that you are so terrified of your spouse discovering?

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WTF is wrong with you people?  I have zero to hide from my DH of 20 years nor does he. I could probably guess his cell and computer pw but in 20 years of marriage it has never once occurred ti me to look ( or snoop) at his phone.  I can’t even imagine living like that. Those that feel the need to search or have full access to a spouse’a phone sound incredibly entitled, insecure and bizarre. And to the prior “gay” marriage PP( as if that mattered at all to the point of your post) -  it’s couples like you who have zero sense of privacy or boundaries or trust in your partner that are more likely to get divorced. You all sound like a bunch of insecure and immature teenagers. Pathetic.   Grow up. [/quote]
You do protest too much. What are you hiding? [/quote]

DP here. I am a woman who has never and will never cheat. Twice in our 25-year marriage, my husband has jumped to insane conclusions by basically hacking in to my work email, snooping, and then accusing me of cheating. Both instances were such stretches from what he read and it basically ruined years of my life because he is a controlling, insecure weirdo who snooped on my computer and carelessly read something. I had and still do give zero evidence or reason for him to think I would cheat. Anybody who thinks snooping around your spouse's phone, email, laptop, whatever, is healthy, is the one with the problem. I agree the PP is rather vehement, but you disagreeing with her are just the typical judgemental, old-fashioned, probably SAHM DC moms who are just fine with being controlled by their husbands and then not trusting them. It's nuts.[/quote]

Spouses that use each other’s phones and a spouse hacking your email and being a nut job are two entirely different things. [/quote]

You don't ever check to see what porn, or how much porn, your spouse is watching?

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How can you do that anymore they just use.porn mode????[/quote]

You mean incognito browser? You can disable that, it's easy, see on youtube.[/quote]

For good?! Seriously??[/quote]

Well, you can add it back if you change your mind.
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As can the person you are trying to spy on.

They can also... wait for it..... buy an extra phone for $50[/quote]

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