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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im a married woman who had an affair. It had nothing to do with my AP, tbh. It was all about my dissatisfaction in my marriage. He just happened to be the person I slept with.[/quote]

This is the answer. I don’t understand why people don’t understand this: the straying spouse is to blame. The AP has nothing to do with it. People like to blame the AP rather than deal with the fact there are issues in the marriage—which means they are partially to blame themselves for the marriage being on shaky ground. [/quote]

BS. Does the AP have something to do with it when they move from out of state, move into your neighborhood and then put their kids in the same school as your children? I mean, at what point do they lack innocence? APs are not blameless. And they damn sure are not all people who just want a lil non-attached sex on the side. Forums like ClubTOW have tons of "other women" who plot and plan to destroy marriages and have gigglefests over sleeping in a married man's bed. Whether or not the husband is to blame is not even an issue. OF COURSE HE IS. But these women need their asses kicked too.[/quote]

Ok. You are crazy.[/quote]

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