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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think anyone thinks they are without blame 
It's just that the wives usually want the other woman to suffer for her pain and embarrassment.

It's less about blame and more about wounded pride .

Even if just briefly her husband chose another woman over her and  for that she must pay[/quote]

And because of “girl code”.  It’s a mean girl, b@tch act to hook up with someone else’s boyfriend/husband.  When you would never ever do it (and never have), it’s hard to comprehend.[/quote]

+1 million

“Those” type of women.  We all knew them in high school and college…and post-college.  They made it a habit to try to bang other woman’s significant others because they thought it meant they were superior, a boost to their self-esteem.  If the woman was prettier, etc,- then they must really be high worth to get her boyfriend/spouse to sleep with them.

They just got to be known as “easy pickings”.  Guys use them. [b]They know what they are good for: pump and dump.  [/quote][/b]

I see this phrase bandied about frequently on this forum, of course it’s meant to dehumanize the AP, but it says so much more about cheating Zombie men. Betrayed wives aren’t worried about these types of women; they are concerned with mate poaching. Many if not most APs consider their affair a prolonged interview for a promotion with the attendant perks. I would wager only a small percent of damaged women want no strings ANYTHING. It’s a competition for limited  resources and betrayed wives become addicted to the adrenaline of the battle. They prolong their antipathy to the OW because their husbands aren’t interested in drama over something that meant so little to them. [/quote]

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