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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you”boat wife” from prior threads?[/quote] Yup, I am embarrassed to admit. I feel like I’m going to be posting these same pathetic threads when I’m 90. I’ll be in the assisted living home and he will still be bugging me to get a bigger boat. Why is it so hard to leave?[/quote] OP, I remember you left him once and it sounds you went back, and that he did not learn anything from the last time you separated. It’s clear that he is not going to change - ever. All you can do is look inward, and reflect on your last question. Perhaps there is a secondary gain to staying, or it’s related to something historic, from your own childhood. You have a lot of fear, and it seems like being alone is more painful for you than staying. Whatever you choose to do about the move, it would benefit you to understand your own patterns, and choices; it’s futile to understand his, or expect him to change. [/quote]
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