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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your husband needs therapy. He sounds depressed, and moving isn’t going to solve that issue. It is very clear that staying where you are makes the most sense - your career, low mortgage rate, opportunities for your kid. There’s really no question that staying is the right decision. But he is bummed because it isn’t what he wants. It is fine to be disappointed, but he needs to be able to work thru these feelings without resenting you! He is acting like a petulant child who is pouting because they want to eat ice cream all day in front of the TV instead of going to school. Lots of people would love to live out in the wilderness and get to hike and fish all the time. But it isn’t the reality because jobs tend to be near cities, along with better schools and a better lifestyle for kids.

Is he having an affair? I think there’s definitely something more going on for him to not understand the logic here.[/quote]

I am PP who said we got divorced and so OP needs to be careful. In hindsight I think my exDH wanting to move was part of a midlife crisis. It turned our family upside down and severely affected my mental health. He went on to make a series of crazy decisions. When I look back the move was only the first one.[/quote]

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