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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not the woman’s job to conduct a thorough background check on a guy to make sure he’s not a dirt bag.  It’s the guy’s responsibility to be honest.  It’s also not the woman’s fault or problem if the guy is married.  The guy is making that decision and is responsible for it.  Why keep blaming women who aren’t the ones lying and cheating?

I am a guy. [/quote]

Yes, it's very easy to run a background check on a total stranger.

I did. I found a mugshot and arrest record online for domestic violence battery. The guy tried to explain himself, but no thank you.

I also found court records and a restraining order online from another divorced guy who claimed his ex wife was crazy.[/quote] 
It might not be hard to do so, but agree with others that there’s no obligation to. [/quote]

DP. Sure. No obligation. But then you should understand that you're accepting the risks that come with choosing not to check someone out.

My relative just started online dating. She had interest from one guy who seemed like he had potential.They hadn't had a first meeting yet. I suggested she at least Google him and we did it together. The search turned up criminal charges for very shady real estate dealings in another state, and failure to show up in court etc. He'd clearly moved to my relative's state to get away from criminal charges in the other state. We found this in the first 30 seconds of Googling. Naturally she never accepted a date and blocked him. But it hadn't even occurred to her to check him out at all.

Women need to be more cautious.[/quote]

And there are married women doing thus putting their families at risk- like the one in queens murdered in her home while her teenage son was asleep upstairs.

People are so stupid and only think with their genitals. [/quote]

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