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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Your marriage is not 100% assured.[/b] Pay him nothing. If he wants more money, he can earn it.[/quote]

What is the deal with his brother that you are supporting him too? How long is that supposed to last and what steps are being taken for brother to become self sustaining?

That DH has cut income by almost half while ramping up monthly financial support to family, with kids to put through college and retirement looming seems hard to understand. What does he tell you about that series of decisions, OP? Given your concerns about finances and more conservative outlook, were you even consulted about the above? A trip is fine if he's otherwise hardworking but what is he doing when he was previously working? Is he a gamer? Or ???

You think you hold all the power cards but your marriage may not last and he could walk away with a LOT of assets. Maybe alimony and child support depending on how old the kids are when you inherit and unless you are VERY careful, $200k plus half of the inheritance, he may well get more than YOU do.

How is family life? Happy and connected? You don't go on trips but do you go on dates, have sex, etc? [/quote]

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