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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a vicious cycle. Past a certain age no one wants virgins. There's shame involved. Have sex with him and then decide what you think of him. I bet he's embellishing his past relationships to seem less lame. He probably went on dates and it never even was much of a relationship.  There are actually a lot of adult virgins but no one wants to admit it. He may be asexual or just resigned to the fact no one wants a virgin.[/quote]
Again. I TRIED to have sex with him. He was so terrible that he himself volunteered "I'm just a little out of practice," immediately followed by "I was lying, I'm a virgin." Then he went soft and couldn't get hard again and went to his home office to work for a couple of hours - this was at 11pm - rather than discuss the issue.[/quote]

Op, you should have posted this originally. I don't think this man is interested in women. [/quote]

Yeah sounds like he's gay. Which was my first thought when I read the first post of this thread and then thankfully skipped to the last page. [/quote]

Or he has psychological or hormonal or other issues.

Men don't fail at sex because they are "terrible at it". A man wouldn't even know he was terrible at it unless his partner was telling him, which would of course be an instant mood killer. A man can have successfully sex with a sock. A man goes soft and can't get hard again because he is psychologically out of whack or has some bodily chemistry problem.  In this case, psychology is the obvious choice. You kick a man out of the zone and he won't get back in immediately. [/quote]

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