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Reply to "Husband considers two plates left in the kitchen "lack of respect" toward him"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would ask my husband why he perceives an oversight while you were rushing out the house to be a sign of "disrespect." This doesn't make sense and I would ask out of a sincere sense of confusion and trying to understand. You certainly already know this, but your husband's expectation of perfection in housekeeping is what is disrespectful. How did you get to a place where you do all the housework and childcare despite having a job? This doesn't sound sustainable. If you don't want to divorce, you need to address this now. Have you tried marriage counseling?[/quote] Agree. Why does he see a plate out and think it was about him at all? He should have been thinking about you, as in, "wow, she left a plate out, so she must have really had a stressful morning. I'll put the plate away and maybe do something special for her when she gets home." That's a loving supportive relationship. [/quote]
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