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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all your replies.[b] I will speak to a divorce attorney. [/b]

Another angle to the story is that I gained 45 pounds in the past five years, and cannot be considered attractive anymore. He is very much into physical beauty. 
However, even if I lose the weight and he becomes kinder to me, I would still find him repulsive.

He cheated on me even 6 years ago when I was a lovely and slender woman.[/quote]

Good. Protect your interests and do it quietly. Don't tell anyone, not even a friend. Leaks happen. Right now -- in this -- you are your own best friend, and you are going to put her first for now. You don't have to make any other decisions yet, just quietly get good advice from a professional beholden only to you, and then figure out what the next step should be.

One way or another, this situation will change. Don't be blindsided by someone else springing that on you while you have to scramble to keep up. Good luck. [/quote]

We are rooting for you, OP! Keep us posted! 
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