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[quote=Anonymous]I would just like to point out that per OP’s follow up, it has been just 4 months (or less) since the affair was discovered (April). The affair itself lasted 8 months. Keep that in mind as you tell OP she needs to let it go, that she can’t “harp” on this year after year, etc. I personally think OP and her DH are still in the thick of the rehashing period and that it’s very normal and appropriate for her to still be thinking about it and asking questions. I think her DH’s expectation that they would be done talking about it by now is absurd and a reflection of his guilty conscience and inability to come to terms with the consequences of his actions. I would keep up with the therapy and see where it goes, but take his current reluctance to talk about it or answer questions as a bad sign. Right now he should be focused closely on fixing what he broke.[/quote]
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