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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I would tell him that you are entitled to harping about it until the end of the infidelity course.

But yeah, privately, I think you're obsessing about it and the infidelity course was probably a money-making course for the therapist, that fed your obsession, but that your husband is really, really hating. I would hate that sort of thing too!

So please drop it after the course, OP. For your own mental health. Seek individual therapy if you need to. There comes a time when the philandering spouse just can't provide more apologies and groveling, you know? He'll want to leave (and maybe that is indeed the right solution for you as well). [/quote]

OK, cheater. What terrible advice. “Don’t make the cheater uncomfortable because he might want to leave” - when the cheater should be apologizing and begging for another chance and offering to do whatever yhe betrayed spouse needs to heal.[/quote]

DP. Okay, but they don't. Sometimes they don't. They act like s--t and then leave. And that's good riddance, absolutely! But a plan to make him apologize and beg and offer to do anything without some backup plan for what to do if that doesn't happen isn't even a practical plan at all.

The strong place to stand is to decide on what you need, accept no less, and be ready for either of you to decide this is not a marriage you can save. It sucks, and it's hard, but it means you don't get emotionally wrenched all over again. [/quote]

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