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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds mentally ill, op. He’s got multiple houses? Are you sure? Strange that he won’t furnish them, I’d be wondering if he really has the money you think he has, dumpster diving and curb scouting take a lot of time, time most people who are working don’t have. Are you sure he isn’t spending money on things he’d prefer you not know about, other women, deadbeat friends/family, other things?

His affirming words and acts of service wouldn’t impress me, he can always stop doing them and then you’ll what exactly?  Plus, it wouldn’t cancel out the feeling that I just wasn’t worth sharing experiences with.  
Even if he is truthful about everything, this goes way beyond “you want to do it, you pay” or “you take him out” because his cheapness will cast a pall over the whole experience, he’ll say you shouldn’t have spent so much, the money could have been better spent elsewhere, he saw a better show for free years aggo, why do you need to support the arts or the travel industry, it’s just awful, wanting to enjoy a fun time with a romantic partner to have them tsk the whole time about the cost, you wanting to go to the event, just no. And then it gets nasty, soon enough op will be a “spoiled (fit in her ethnicity) girl, or she will lack compassion for those less fortunate, or she’ll be materialistic (she’s already been called that once), why continue in this relationship, op? This is very different from a married couple deciding they’ll eat at Chipolte because it makes them think of when they were 20 and just met, or they had a nice vacation, one they are both happy with.   
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 Agree with the person who says he probably wants sex and has figured out how to spend the least amount of money possible so that you will continue to provide the sex. 
 
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