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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL blames me for her poor relationship with her son. But the truth is, it's all him, and he doesn't like her and doesn't want to spend more time with her.

I suggest visiting her about twice as often as we actually go, because he hates visiting her. I've even suggested moving to a bigger home so that she could potentially come live with us, but DH vetoed that immediately. It's his family so I defer to him. I am really not bothered by her. She's annoying sometimes in the same way my own parents annoy me. But I don't have any beef with her.

My DH has a lot of resentments from things she did when he was growing up, and also her behavior since he became an adult (she can be very self-centered and she offers basically nothing in the form of emotional support, though she expects DH to provider her with emotional support on demeaned), and he just doesn't like her very much.

I'm fine if she wants to blame me for it, but it's sad that she doesn't realize she did this to herself.[/quote]

Same with my DH.  [/quote]

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