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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are so many people who need to be actively taught how to take on the perspective of others. It is shockingly common for people to genuinely believe that everyone sees the world exactly as they do, so they don't see anything else and don't need to change a thing. They may not notice, for example, when others are hurt or need help, and don't understand when they are told someone is hurt or needs help, especially if they themselves don't feel that way about the situation. It just does not compute. If we were talking about a child, I would suggest playing games like Backseat Drawing, but I'm betting OP's husband wouldn't join in. [/quote] Thank you. I will look into that. Sh definitely has something that blocks him. We have been in therapy and I know she was getting annoyed at treating basic stuff like how to compromise. I wanted to install a sliding mirror in our guest room to exercise or see my whole body when I was getting ready. He was totally against it and called me high maintenance. It's a mirror you don't have to use daily for it to be worth it. [/quote]
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