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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m admittedly a Jonah Hill fan, but I seriously don’t get it.

Everything I read was basically just a calm and respectful statement of his “boundaries” in a relationship. Not something I personally would be cool with, but this idea that it was somehow “abusive” is crazy. The ex was free to decide any time if they were a good match or not.

We routinely defend women for having preferences—whether it’s wealth, height, certain type of career, liking or not liking certain hobbies or activities, drinker or non-drinker, etc. And if some MRA incel gets mad about that (surely because he doesn’t fit the criteria), he’s rightly condemned. Women don’t have to give a guy a chance if he’s a short, fat, unemployed pothead who plays video games all day.

JH doesn’t want a girlfriend who poses publicly in bikinis, or frolics in the ocean with other guys. So what? I suspect there are many people, men and women, who would feel uncomfortable with that in their partner.[/quote]

He did nothing wrong. I doesn’t matter if we agree with his boundaries. He clearly knew what they were, and likewise stated them clearly. Good for him for knowing what he wants. [/quote]

That's kind of where I am too.  I would feel differently if it was a boiling-the-frog thing where they dated for a year+ and then he tried to impose all these rules and control her.  Because at that point she is presumably very invested and in love and picturing a future, so it's more like emotional abuse or emotional blackmail at least.

He is obviously an insecure weirdo, but he put it all out there early on and she was free to take it or leave it. [/quote]

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