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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband still going to AA after 46 years. I’m fed up with it and want to know when it is our time or my time? [/quote] He’s going to AA after 46 years because sobriety is one day at a time. He’s also going there to be of service to others, by his example, his experiences and possibly his sponsorship of newcomers. I don’t quite understand what you mean by “our time or my time.” “Your” time sounds like the time you’d spend doing things without DH. “Our time” sounds like “couple” time, which is different. I hope that the two of you could work out “together” activities, but you can’t just blame the absence of that on AA or DH. It takes a concerted effort by both of you to build/maintain/rebuild a couples relationship. Sometimes people resent a partner’s AA involvement, just like they might resent a golf, fishing or other hobby or a club, but they don’t actually try to do anything to address that. [/quote]
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