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[quote=Anonymous]OP forget about marriage therapy, it’s going to be a waste of time. You need to reflect on your financial and personal life and consider whether you are going to be better off with or without your husband.

I chose to stay because financially it was the right thing to do for my kids and myself. I realized ten years ago when I found out my husband was cheating that I didn’t have my ducks in a row to leave him and end up ahead or even at the same level. He made $750k while I made 75k. I met with a financial planner which was way better than spending money on marriage therapy. I came up with a game plan to set me up financially and didn’t disrupt our kids’ lives. I ended up quitting my job so I wasn’t so stressed out, and I had time to travel with my husband on several business trips (he cheated on business trips to one city). I made sure my husband got a vasectomy so assets wouldn’t have to ever be split with a new family, we took up a new hobby together, and I learned how to squirrel away money. Life isn’t perfect but we get along so I realized it was better that I stayed with him. [/quote]

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