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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here,

I am willing to compromise but not by much.  My gf wants to limit the time they spend at my house and I think that is why I reacted so strongly and put the break up option on the table.

I can tell her that the kids can text before they arrive but that is it.  That is as far as I am willing to compromise.  I don't think that will be enough for her though.  As for her background she is divorced and concentrated on her career vs having kids and decided not to have children of her own.

I live in the house they grew up in so they do consider it their home and I want them to.  I am use to a revolving door of kids and a loud house.

I am fairly certain we are going to break up but you all gave me a lot to think about.

So as far as my ex wifes husband and our friendship.  We are bonded by a mutual love of sports.  Our kids are friends and attended the same school.  Two of our sons are athletes which meant lots of time on the road and going to games.  It started as car pooling and then we started hanging out on our own.  It evolved over time.  The ex and I had a very amicable divorce so there were no hard feelings on either side.
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Show your GF what you wrote here. If she has self respect she will leave for someone who wants a relationship of equals with her.[/quote]

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