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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, I was also newly single on my 30th, and the pain is real. I’m so sorry. He’s a good guy for deciding not to waste your time. I met my husband at 32 and still popped out two kids w/o IVF. If my boyfriend at 29 had hung on, he would have wasted years of my life.

The good news about a great ex is that now your standards are higher.  You cannot have healthy, well-adjusted kids with a loser. I’ve seen so many women try and fail.

Your new to-do list:

Therapy. You can’t get a great guy unless you’d be fine without him. It’s unfair, but true.

Work out for your health. Sleep for your health. Eat cleanly for your health. There will be a side benefit of maximizing your looks.

When you’re ready, go online dating and treat it like a job. You can do this. [/quote]
Thank you. I drank a bottle of wine yesterday and cried to the delivery guy. I got out of my apt. for the first time since Monday night this morning. So that's huge. (I did not go into the office and likely won't until I'm sure I can go a day without crying, because my worst nightmare is shutting my office door to cry and someone walking in to ask me a question while I'm crying)

I actually have a couple of dates already. My best friend mentioned to a few guys we know that I am single and they asked me out. I need the distraction. But I probably won't get into a relationship for another few months.[/quote]

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