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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely. I would end contact and the friendship immediately.[/quote] This reply can't be serious? End the friendship over something that had absolutely NOTHING to do with you? Give me a break. You must have been a terribly non-supportive friend in the first place. [/quote] It isn't about it having to do with you. It is about character, values and morality. It is about realizing that someone puts their sexual desires ahead of their care or concern for their children. It is about realizing who someone is behind who they portray to you. Are you really saying your friends could do anything (to their kids, spouses, strangers) and as long as it didn't have anything to do with you you would stay supportive. Is your name Dottie by any chance?[/quote] Protecting your spouse who raped countless young boys is not in the same universe as refusing to break off a friendship with someone who had sex outside of his/her marriage. That you would even equate the two speaks volumes of your warped sense of morals.[/quote] +1 You are a cheater, you aren't going to get why it is a character flaw to have sex outside of marriage. A narcissistic frame of mind is likely clouding your view of how this isn't all / only about you. Maybe your kids once they go through therapy can enlighten you. Keep giggling with your girlfriends behind your spouses backs about your infidelity, the friends you have who do this are pretty much likely cheaters as well. [/quote][/quote]
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