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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's my question: What do I say if she says "don't worry, we'll leave the house exactly like we found it.". I know for a fact that they won't, even if they intend to. [/quote]

"I know for a fact that you won't, even if you intend to."

Okay, that's harsh, you can say "I'll leave instructions for the dishwasher and washing machine and there will be plenty of detergent for all your sheets and towels.  Just fold them and leave them on the couch and I'll put them away in the proper place.  I'll leave the vacuum in the living room and bathroom cleaners easily accessible.  Just promise me you will absolutely not allow food outside the kitchen or let the dog on the furniture.  We've never had people use our home when we're not able to host them so I hope you understand why this is not ideal for us."

I would not leave food though.  They would be getting free housing so they can spring for their own food!

What are they coming for?  WIll they really be in the house that much or will they be off with the other family members?[/quote]

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