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[quote=Anonymous]I think having a kid really makes you think about your own childhood in unexpected ways that can screw with your head. You look at your kid, and remember things that you really can't even fathom doing to your kid. And for some people these things aren't big deals and they might not fully grasp (IE, teenage issues when you have a baby) but some things you really do see with real crystal clarity suddenly. Things you thought were no big deal because you dealt with them you see through the eyes of your own child. I had a fairly traumatic childhood and thought I was totally fine but had to start therapy when my oldest was like 4/5 because I had like a full on breakdown after a fight with my parents that almost like, caused estrangement. Anyway, just saying its normal OP, HIGHLY recommend therapy to help you work through it. It will make you happier and a better parent. [/quote]
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