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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I am not a troll. I own a home in the neighborhood my ex-AP and his wife are moving into. They are renters. They are moving into the townhome section in my neighborhood. I live in the single family home section. We will be on opposite sides of a large neighborhood in my community.

My husband, ex-AP & ex-AP’s wife went to the same high school. They are all several years older than me. I met ex-AP on social media.

My Facebook was very much private. Deactivated now. My husband doesn’t use social media very much.

Ex-AP’s wife had a brief affair several years ago. Shortly after the affair, ex-ap’s wife found out she was pregnant. There was never a DNA test done on the child, but ex-AP does take care of the child. Ex-AP’s wife denies ever having physical relations with her affair partner. They have had a very rocky marriage to say the least. Part of the message she sent to me acknowledged that.

I am trying my best to feel empathy, but it’s not easy as I’m severely hurting. I feel as if I’ve lost my best friend. I realize I was living in a fantasy, but it’s not easy to let that go. I feel very lost. [/quote]

Yeah, you’re a troll.[/quote]

I'm the poster who called someone (you?) a Troll Hunter because of this persistence. How are you defining "troll" in this context? If you are defining a troll as a person who makes things up to rile people on the internet up, I don't think this fits. There is no reason to believe that the OP is making anything up other than that you don't think the scenario is plausible. She's definitely posting about a provocative topic, which a minute and a half on the relationship forum would have told her, but a topic being provocative does not automatically make the poster a troll.[/quote]

No, DP calling OP a troll.  Someone who makes up stuff and posts it for a reaction.

If OP is so very broken up about this, why is OP spending hours - hours - posting about it? And the extra little detail each time OP posts? The wife tells her about the state of their marriage?

It’s unbelievable.  Not to be believed.

Sometimes I think jsteele posts this stuff to get more ad dollars.  People on this forum love a juicy affair story.  Lots of posts.

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