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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been bringing up TTC and he says that he doesn’t want kids or the suburban life but he will have them with me because I want them. This looks like a serious thing to say. How can he say he doesn’t want them but will have them with me? What does that even mean? My head is spinning. [/quote] Ask him. To me, it means, he loves you so he'll put his fears aside for you. It also means if he couldn't pitch in as much as you want, you can't blame him. To be fear, committing to a suburban family life with 2 babies, sleepless nights, van, daycare, college tuition and what not sounds scary and one needs some big incentive. For him, that incentive is to get to be with you.[/quote]
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