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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My affair was like nothing I have ever experienced before or since. I loved him before it started, but never thought it would go there. Once it did, I never slept with my DH again. My whole life was lies but my body kept the truth of where my heart was. I stopped seeing and went no contact w AP, but have never been able to love DH again with this lie that only I know about between us. There really is no coming back from it for some people.[/quote] "This lie that only I know about" -- Wait, so are you and DH still together but you are still not having sex with him at all? You don't think he's figured out there is some lie between you, if you're refusing all sex? Or did you create a new "reason" (read: lie) for why you can never have sex? Maybe you did that thing the "open marriage" advocates on DCUM love to recommend and told him to step out and get sex wherever he wanted. So--are you still married, and is the marriage sexless? Why didn't you and soulmate AP just end your marriage(s) for each other, if this was such a love connection? Asking for real. [/quote]
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