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Betrayed spouses speak of limerence in an attempt to convince themselves that their spouse's relationship with the AP isn't serious. What they refuse to admit, though, is that nearly all romantic relationships start with a crush/limerence,[b] including the one that they previously had with their spouse. Limerence will grow into lasting, meaningful love with time and attention.[/b]

That's the reason the wayward spouse has to go No Contact No Matter What with the AP if they are going to attempt reconciliation.[/quote]

And what APs refuse to admit is that they will never be able to trust that their AP won't ditch them once their affair becomes lasting, meaningful love the same way it did with his spouse.  Because next time he develops a crush, it's peace out and on to the next great love of his life. [/quote]

It's called having a track record. Ignore his track record at your own peril.

And I learned this saying on DCUM; it's a pithy way to put things: "If he would cheat WITH you, he would cheat ON you." 
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