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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Focus on unmarried men in your league. [b]If you take high earner and hot off of the list,[/b] you'll find many kind, mature, educated, responsible potential family men out there getting labeled as mediocre.[/quote]

This is terrible, misogynistic advice.

If you marry someone you don’t find hot, [b]they[/b] will resent the fact that you don’t want to have *a lifetime of* monogamous sex. Do not do this. It’s not fair to either of you.

If you marry someone who is going to be in a different SES than you plan for, [b]you[/b] are going to resent the struggling, not setting your kids up, delayed retirement, etc. Money is a leading cause of marital disharmony.

OP maximize your own potential, especially earning potential. Make as much money as you reasonably can because that will keep you in the peer group of the men you are trying to attract.

Use that money to maximize your attractiveness. Spend on good clothes, good food, very high end enhancements.
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Hot is usually defined as hot to majority, [b]you can be attracted to a good woman/man and find them hot [/b]even if they aren't 10/10 on public meter.[/quote]

You can. But if you don’t find your spouse hot, you’re doing every person in the marriage a disservice. Taking hot off the list is how you get a sexless marriage thread in eight years. [/quote]

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