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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s their money but it’s also natural that this will stir resentment among the siblings. It’s disingenuous to pretend otherwise.[/quote]

Everyone is responsible for their own feelings. Resentment isn’t some special exception.

OP’s vagueness about the religious aspect makes me think the child who got the gift is the only one who continued in the faith.

OP should thank their lucky stars if their parents don’t gift the whole estate to the church. It happens every day. [/quote]
The parents shouldn’t be surprised then at their kids reactions.[/quote]

And the kids shouldn’t be surprised that their parents value church participation. I doubt they converted when OP turned 30. [/quote]
At least the kids know that their parents love was always conditional. [/quote]

If you think money is how love is expressed your parents failed you. If you think your parents and siblings are responsible for your feelings and reactions, they profoundly failed you.

In any case I think you should refrain from giving parenting advice and work on yourself. [/quote]
What are you blathering about? It looks like the OP’s parents expressed their love with money preferentially to one sibling. 
Work on your reading comprehension before posting tirades. [/quote]

Where does OP say money = love? That’s just you. [/quote]
So the parents gave one sibling a million dollars because they really hated them. Got it!  :lol: [/quote]
You just can’t stop proving my point huh?[/quote]
And you just can’t keep digging in. 
Why is this striking such a nerve with you? Are you the parent who favors one child over the other or are you the beneficiary of unequal largesse?[/quote]

Nope. I’m the child of penniless people so I can see this all with clear, neutral eyes. And you just look… pathetic. If I ever have anything to leave in a will I think I’ll give it all to charity to avoid any of them turning out like you. [/quote]
So you have no idea what OP was talking about.  :D [/quote]

OP has hidden so many balls (total value of the potential estate, the childrens’ involvement in religion, the nature of the private school) none of us really know what’s going on. [/quote]

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