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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh, at one miserable point in my miserable marriage, I began sexting with men online.  It was fun and I personally didn’t consider it cheating, just more of a pretend fantasy.

Eventually I landed on a married man and it was awful from start to finish.  For one thing, he was funny and smart and sweet and we had a lot in common.  I had feelings for him and pretended I didn’t.  From what he told me, his marriage was less catastrophic than mine but I still believe it was bad.  He admitted his wife wasn’t a bad person but that she refused to do marriage counseling with him and they only had sex 2-3 times per year.  Maybe true, maybe not.  I don’t think he had much reason to lie, honestly, some woman you are sexting with online is not going to be a paragon of virtue needing a lot of moral justification.

I did think about his wife and kids and felt awful about the whole thing the whole time.  I liked him so much and I knew it was going to escalate and there could be no good outcome, so I slowly disengaged and eventually blocked him.  [/quote]

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