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[quote=Anonymous]NP here and didn't read everything, so maybe this has been said already. OP - I think it is fair for you to be concerned about your own finances. But it may be a better decision for your own finances long term to help MIL now. I would provide assistance but with the stipulation about seeing a financial planner and perhaps restructuring her assets so that she can't just blow through savings on a whim. Perhaps she needs a trust set-up. What is the state of her will? What are the fall-back plans in case of disability or needing long term care? Use this as an opportunity to get her to establish better financial practices so that she doesn't become more of a financial burden in the future, which seems likely based on your descriptions.[/quote]
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