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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lordy. Once again, I am happy to be Indian (American). I happened to move out when I was 18 but came back at 22 for 2 years. My younger siblings each stayed with my folks after college during med/grad school for 3-4 years saving. All of us are married, with PHD/MD degrees and 2-3 kids (and with a lot less debt because we all commuted from home for part of it). Our parents have their own home but it's understood their care will be shared between us siblings (all live in the DMV).

I just cannot imagine kicking out my kids (or my parents). I grew up with (both sets of) grandparents - this is normal in many parts of the world. Have sex in your bedroom. No-one cares what you cook. (And most of us actually like our mom's food anyway). What a messed up idea.[/quote]

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My DD moved back in with us during grad school. Continues to stay with us when she started job/career.  she is planning to get married in a couple years.  In the meantime, all earnings are being socked away to have a head-start on retirement and leg-up in life.
we will pay for wedding and none of my kids have no student debt. That is our gift to them. we have planned for our retirement also and we are financially ok.  Even if the nest is not empty, having my ACs live with us is a boon. we can travel without worrying about the house. we and they entertain their guests with zero issues, we all follow the diets that we want and cook or get takeout what we want.  I don't understand what  PPs are worrying about?[/quote]

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