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[quote=Anonymous]This thread is making me so grateful for my spouse. We are on the same level re: house stuff. And by the standards of a few PPs above, we're both apparently pigs. But we're happy and healthy (gosh, we haven't [i]died[/i] from letting dishes soak overnight?! Amazing! How did we stay married 30 years?!). OP, this is about more than the dishes and bathroom counter, isn't it? I urge you to consider other things you've seen but ignored, or explained away, or blamed yourself for, that might also show he's all about having things his own way, every day. That character trait is the real issue, not the fact that the blowups are about supposed messes. Seeing that is much more important than reading yet another post criticizing [i]you[/i], which is undeserved. Focus on the real and bigger issue here, the blowups. And please stop excusing them. His workbooks and meditation don't seem to be working, do they?[/quote]
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