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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was on your side until you said the kitchen isn’t clean at night. That’s actually gross - leaving dirty dishes or crumbs on the counters. It was the wrong thing we make sure is clean before bed - no matter what. Even if we have a major dinner party, every dish is done before bed. And really, it’s a much more pleasant morning when you enter a clean kitchen.[/quote]

Why is cleaning the kitchen her job, though?  He's the one with the higher standards, and they both eat dinner together.  When a woman says her husband is a slob the response is "you just have unnecessarily high standards, if you care so much you clean it and don't be a nag."  Now a girlfriend says her boyfriend blows up at her about crumbs on the counter that were there when *they both went to bed after dinner* and the response is "be a better homemaker, it's really important and pleasant when your kitchen is clean!"

OP dump this guy and don't come to misogyny.com for advice.[/quote]

Cleaning the kitchen is not her job unless it's his job to do other stuff.  Is he doing all the yard work, taking care of the cars, toilet cleanups, taking out the trash, laundry, etc.  All depends on the division of labor.

I don't think I can deal with a guy that blows up a me, but I can't deal with OP and her dirtiness either.[/quote]

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