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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lately I have been thinking of it “they own your a$$”
So they are your problem. The person who took all of mom’s time and resources and love and affection owes her something. Me, the ugly stepsister, not so much![/quote]

Yup.  And frankly, if they want to trust my unreliable sibling with their end of life decision making, that’s their choice.  I’m not going to spend a minute feeling guilty.  Reap what you sow. The ugliness over the years really adds up.  I don’t know where these people learned they could rely on their “good” kids to support them without giving anything in return.  And by anything I just mean decency, love and respect. They don’t cost a thing.  But they wonder why they aren’t getting it from their adult children. It’s not complicated.

As a parent, I’m learning that the time my child is in my home is really short and that I’ll have to work to keep the relationship when my child leaves to create their own life and family.  He’s not my indentured servant. Making your way is hard enough without the noose of unloving parents around your neck.[/quote]

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