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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Complain to your husband, not us, lol. [/quote]

I know he will probably let me get my parents the car I want.

I am just wondering about others in the same situation where one spouse stays home and one is the sole earner.[/quote]

OP, you have a good situation. My husband makes high 6 figures, close to 7, but not quite. This has been the case for our 20 year marriage. I'm on the house and nothing else. I have a credit card with his name on it. I've negotiated cash settlements by threatening to go back to work a few times. Yes, my husband basically lets me buy whatever I want within reason and within reason is not a 110k vehicle. He doesn't like luxury anything (maybe it was upbringing, have no idea), but you'd never know how much he makes from looking at him or what he drives or even where we live. Your husband may just think it's silly to spend money on a really nice car for your elderly parents at this point in their lives. Why not look at that as a sign of fiscal prudence. These high salaries can go away at anytime. I think you've got a really good deal compared to mine. Your husband seems to think of it as "our money" particularly since you say he would cave if you pressed the issue. I think it's normal and healthy to have a conversation and compromising on purchases. My DH would never help out my parents like this, or at least I don't think he would. I'm ok with my situation just because I'm a spender and DH is a saver, so it's probably better this way, although risky for me; I get that. It sounds like you have a great husband, but he spends a lot. I know a lot of people that make in the 2 million range and it's still not enough for them, so I don't think 3 mil is "enough" either, at least the way you both spend.[/quote]

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