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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's interesting that some people seem to think this is the norm, parents who are difficult and annoying who they would like to cut off and never see again.

I'm sure it happens but it's not typical in my experience, for me or the people I know.  I get along fine with my adult kids, we treat each other with respect, always have.

Tell me, those of you who are suffering through this painful relationship with your parents, what are you doing now that you think will prevent this from happening with your own kids?[/quote]

I still have a relationship with my parents, but I’ve created a lot of boundaries. Some of which they don’t like, but I don’t care. What am I doing with my own kids:
-not being emotionally abusive, including saying things like “you don’t love me” and spending every holiday locked in my room or crying
-have a healthy, functional relationship with my spouse where we sleep in the same bedroom, take vacations together, and show respect and affection for one another
-not emotionally needy when it comes to my kids; I don’t expect them to be my therapist
-I support my kids equally and don’t favor one over the others[/quote]

My dh snores and I’m a light sleeper. We sleep in different rooms. I hope my children don’t decide to stop talking to me over it! [/quote]

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