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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there’s a pretty standard dynamic by which it can happen, though I don’t think it happens often.

I would say that it goes something like this:

- DW recognizes that au pair is attractive, [b]see’s[/b] her as a threat and treats her coldly (whether intended or not).
- Au Pair also [b]see’s[/b] the dw being mean to the dh (the early kid years really peak dw’s resentment) and in a few bad parenting moments.
-DW becomes the bad guy in au pair’s view and [b]view’s[/b] dh as a victim who stays for the well-being of the kids
-Au Pair [b]see’s[/b] DH in good parenting moments with the kids and starts to develop a crush.
- DH has a resentful wife who looks like a mom, and a young adoring au pair in the same house.  She’s easy to talk to and does nice thoughtful things for him because she thinks he deserves it.

And there you go, thats how it all starts.[/quote]

1). If the first step in your process is the DW being cold to the au pair because she views her as a threat, then why would she hire her in the first place?

2). For the love of God, please learn how to use an apostrophe correctly.[/quote]

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