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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a slightly different take on this. I expect my husband and I to be a team--he has got my back and I have got his. He would never allow his mother to viciously attack me, especially over a decision that we had made jointly (it sounds like this is the case for you?). He would let her know that we had made the decision together. Hell, even if he disagreed with me and thought I was wrong, he wouldn't let someone attack me. Unless you're spewing truly hateful racist/homophobic stuff, there is no reason to viciously attack someone. You can disagree without resorting to personal attacks.

If I were you, I would feel very alone in my marriage, and like I didn't have someone who was on my side. That wouldn't fly with me--I need a ride or die partner. We don't always have to agree, but we have to agree that our partnership comes first and we won't allow other people to treat either of us poorly.  I would request that we re-enter marriage counseling to discuss this. [/quote]

I don’t disagree with you, but you resolve this in years 1-5 before you have 4 kids. Once you have passively accepted this to the tune of 4 kids, getting divorced sounds nuts to me.[/quote]

People with 4 kids are allowed to get divorced. That may come as a shock to you.[/quote]

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