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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is very interesting and it’s gotten me thinking whether there are different types of ‘attractive to other women’ vs to ‘attractive to men.’ Many women throughout my life have told me I’m pretty - friends, extended family, older women, co-workers etc. Kids almost always like me right away and when I was younger kids would tell me I was pretty (I work in education so usually it would be a first day of school type thing). Men though have literally never said anything to me and I’ve never had anyone express anything I’d consider a reflection of them thinking I’m attractive. No free drinks when I was younger, no boys asking me out, no one offering to do me favors, nada. Most of the time I am invisible which is fine and definitely preferable to the alternative. I vividly remember telling a male friend that I liked him and his reaction was what I’d imagine if I looked like the Beast in Beauty and the Beast. He seemed disgusted and it was terribly humiliating. Anyway, I guess I assume most people who are attractive are fairly universally so, but maybe there are a few of us out there that are only good looking to one sex or the other?? [/quote] At a wedding once, the wife of one of DH friends said I was “hot” and it was a bigger compliment to my self-esteem than any attention I’ve ever gotten from men. [/quote]
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