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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you like this because more time with your SO, or would it be a red flag?[/quote]

Have you asked them?  Many years ago a friend of mom left her sons because she was afraid fir her life.  She lost custody of her sons.  She knew he wouldn't hurt them but she was punished severely because the husband was powerful.  So.  I would find out the story.[/quote]

I know many women who had to leave a very unhealthy and unsafe situation. It may look like she abandoned the kids but she had to save herself or they were all going down.  The kids later understood this. It’s a tough decision but also clear.

Not saying this guy Op is dating is some big victim of various abuses and left to save his mental abilities. Doubt it.[/quote]

I just can’t believe a mother would feel ok leaving the kids with a man who abused her and created an unhealthy situation for the family. I know 2 women who let their ex-husbands have full custody. The dads were great dads- and both women left to marry younger men who didn’t want kids at all. Their lives were about them as a married couple, and the kids would not fit in.

How can you leave your kids with an abusive person? How do you know once you leave the abusive partner won’t take their anger and resentment out on the closest people left- the kids? Who would protect the kids if that happened?[/quote]

Then you clearly have little experience in the family court abuse, post separation abuse, financial abuse and divorcing a narcissist with money. 
You are blessed. [/quote]

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