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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid is turning down an Ivy that’s $85k/year for a full ride at a flagship. According to my kid, they are far from the only one of their classmates making such a decision. Kids talk. What are the consequences to this as the years go on & so many top students can’t afford elite privates?[/quote] It is an intriguing question. The demographics at the elite colleges have changed significantly in the last 20 years and what are the long term implications of this? There were already kids turning down Ivies for full rides at state universities or just attending a much cheaper flagship honors program in the past. But I can easily see how this would be far more kids now than 20 years ago due to the rise of the donut hole families. I do think that Ivy prestige has steadily weakened over time, they no longer have the perceived lock on the best and brightest, especially as the professional classes now really understands the cost/benefit analysis, and also that Ivy admission is hardly meritocratic and is based on very different factors that have little to do with achievement. And others are less impressed by the behaviors and attitudes of elite college grads, fair or not, especially with cancel culture and the growth of rigid ideological outlooks that these schools have embraced (with some exceptions, like Chicago). Then we do have that there are many more best and brightest chasing after a limited number of spots, which actually means they end up being dispersed among a wider range of schools. All in all, I am no longer "impressed" when I see an elite college decal on a car. I do think nice kid, bit lucky, and not much more than that. When evaluating candidates, if I notice their college on the resumes, I don't give weight to elite college grads over lesser college grads once above a certain threshold. What they actually did is much more important, along with impression in the interviews. Having said that, the Ivies will still produce genuinely impressive graduates who go on to achieve great things, but this is probably no more than 1/4 - 1/3 of their student body, with the rest not really meaningfully different from comparable students at UVA or College Park or Vanderbilt or whatever. [/quote] Where did you get your 1/4-1/3 stat? FWIW, people have been turning down Ivies due to cost for more than 20 years. This isn't a new phenomenon.[/quote] The gulf in price between Ivies & state schools has exploded over the past 20 years. Lots of state schools have frozen tuition or let you lock in your tuition for all four years the year you enroll.[/quote] Yeah, but there were still kids with middle class parents turning down the Ivies in the '80s because the parents couldn't afford that tuition. The group may be larger now than then, but this isn't new though may be to you.[/quote] True. My brother and I were among them. Also most of the top students at my middle class suburban high school didn't even bother applying to schools they knew they couldn't afford because even the application fee was too much to pay for a lottery ticket.[/quote] When I graduated from high school in 1980, the mantra was that if you could get into a school, you could find a way to attend. At that time the tuition, room, and board at the NESCAC school I attended cost about $8K. Many of my middle and upper-middle class New England high school classmates went to private schools, as well. I contributed about $2K/year towards the cost from summer earnings, covered my own books and miscellaneous expenses, took out a student loan for $1500-$2K/year, and my parents paid the rest. They did this for all six of their kids at private schools, paying over time (not in a lump sum) under arrangements with each school. It was a stretch for them relative to what the state flagship would have been, but it was doable, and the modest low-interest student debt we incurred was manageable. The year I went abroad, the tuition cost $800 because the program was at the European university through an American school. My room and board was $300 a month. My parents saved a lot of money that year relative to what they would have paid for my on-campus costs. Fast-forward, the same NESCAC school now costs $86K/year. A family like the one I grew up in could never in a million years pull off what my parents did. Apples and oranges.[/quote] Yes, very common. I entered college @ ~$6000/year and graduated at ~$13,000 four years later. But how did you pull down 2000 in a summer when minimum wage was 3.10 in 1980 and 3.35 starting in 1981? Twelve weeks @ 3.10/hour x 40 hours = $1488. Very few folks i knew were able to land a job for much more than minimum wage but may have also been due to the region of the country. [/quote] I worked for more than minimum wage and always two jobs. [/quote] you were lucky. i worked two jobs, but both were minimum wage and neither was over 40 hours.[/quote]
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