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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here-

I'm also supposed to leave for my first business trip since I got a promotion on Monday. Is this something I can/should be honest with my boss about?

Do I try to reach DHs individual therapist somehow?[/quote]

My reply is 100% influenced by the affair. Otherwise I would say DH comes first.

If you can get your in-laws or parents to help with the kids, I would 100% go on this business trip

You don't know what the future holds. If your marriage will last. You deserve to put yourself first too (along with kids). He certainly did.[/quote]

+1. And I also call MAJOR bullcrap on this breakdown happening right as you are headed out for your first business trip after your promotion, OP. I hope I'm wrong, but I think he's playing you like a fiddle here.[/quote]

This.  He is playing OP.  [/quote]

Bluntly, all of you insisting you KNOW what is happening are projecting your own issues.  Given the context OP has described: an affair, discover, several months of intensive therapy - i.e., all stressful - and then a period of extreme stress and very little sleep, actual suicidal ideation/intent and a major depressive episode are entirely plausible.  Moreover, you don’t diagnose personality disorder based on something you read online.[/quote]

PP here. I'm not projecting anything. I have not been in this situation at all. It's just my impression. I hope I'm wrong.[/quote]

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