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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am surprised how many people think 9:30 is late on a school night for older teenagers.
One son has a club that doesn’t even get out until 9 PM. His lacrosse practice is every other night until 7:30.
The other has tennis until 5 or 6, and meets friends at the gym and exercise from 6:30-8:30 PM
High schoolers have odd schedules, and 9:30 isn’t “late”.
(And yes, they have 3.8 GPAs - I know, low by DCUM standards but not bad for the rest of society). They get their homework done, and still have time for clubs, sports, and friends. [/quote]

It's late enough for teen sex and teen pregnancy, is what we mean, PP. You should get this without us having to spell it out.
The later they hang out, the worse it gets.
This has nothing to do with evening activities. My 12 year old's orchestra gets out at 9pm. Not the same thing at all!

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Thank you for clarifying that teen sex only happens after 9pm outside of school activities. Thank you for spelling this out for us. Your 12 year old will NOT be a team parent!![/quote]

I did not say that. I said it gets worse the later it is. And I'm right.

My 12 year old will probably not be a team parent, you are correct.

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The time doesn't matter, the presence of parents does. [b]It sounds like OP is present for these hang outs, [/b]so why the fixation with the time?[/quote]

No, it doesn't.[/quote]

She literally witnessed this incident and then comforted the gf at 7:30pm - she was home well before 9pm, which the parent of an orchestra teen has let us know is when teens start having sex.[/quote]

We put our kids in orchestra and activities to keep them busy and out of houses like OP who don't care about activities, homework, etc.  How does this HS student have that much time to spend all night hanging out?[/quote]

Thats great. GFs dad doesn't have 50/50 custody - he doesn't share your priorities so stop trying to justify his weird behavior [/quote]

If he has visits, and this was his visit time he has every right to say something and he may have shared custody and he is the father so he has every right to talk to her.  If this girl is over OP house 2 school nights a week, when is she doing homework?  OP is a lousy parent.[/quote]

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