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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this friend's situation. My solution was to stop talking to people. Trauma is isolating. People don't understand, and though they love to think of themselves as lovely and caring, they're really just great big hypocrites. Such a shame about your mood having been brought down, though, right?[/quote] See, OP, this is the kind of self-pitying, poor me, manipulative response you’re likely to get from your friend. But you should speak to her anyway, because you’re doing her a favor if she doesn’t want to be friendless and alone.[/quote] NP she’ll still be friendless and alone. When the trauma is so big a part of your life that it’s who you are, if you can’t share, you have nothing to talk about so you’re friendless and alone. [/quote] It you choose to be woe is me and see yourself in perpetuity as a victim to be pitied, then sure.[/quote]
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